Okay... *sigh*
I'm seriously considering dropping out of school.
This thing that happened last week about the discrimination problem... that was just the last straw. I hate that school with a passion. It's hard to explain how much I hate it, I just do. I can't be myself there, I don't even get a chance to. I have a handful of friends that like me for who I am... and I love them to death for rthat. Which is why this decision is so hard for me. Not to sound conceited, but I know for a fact that I am an open-minded person. And my friends need that. But I can't handle that school anymore or the majority of the students in it. They're just horrible people. Even though I hate the counselor, she hit the nail on the head when she said that we live in a close-minded society. I agree with that whole-heartedly: overall, our community is appallingly close-minded... and I just can't stand it anymore.
I talked to a guy online about getting my GED (
I get to learn at my own pace. I won't be learning useless things like I do in classrooms, stated in the guy's email. He said that the GED was founded in the idea to help students that realized the school system is ineffective and broken.... Which are my views, at least on my county's school system.
He said that people who take the GED tend to get their GED within 4 to 5 weeks, which would be simply amazing for me.
I was thinking about it, as mentioned, and I figure I can take those 4-5 weeks as something of a vacation. You know, study, but not work. Why not work too? Because in Kentucky, if you drop out, you loose your license until you get your GED. So, I'd study and take the test in 4-5 weeks. When I pass, I would have to finish up my permit option and then go for my intermediates. I would go to work to start saving for college. I would do a night-shift option, and I would be able to work full-time because I wouldn't be attending school, which would mean no restrictions. All of this would be going on while my friends are still stuck in their junior year.
I would save up money... probably for about 2 years. About the time that my friends would be graduating. Maybe 3 years, because that's when my cousin would graduate, and I'm supposed to be living with her then.
Then I would be able to go straight to college while everyone else is still working it off. I would have a nice little nest egg for college funds.
And... I'd just have a better life.
I can't handle that school or the students there anymore. I'm going to snap and turn into an awful "problem child" if I have to stay there for too much longer. I mean "problem child" as in, fights, skipping class, skipping school, failing.... I just couldn't handle it.
But, with the GED thing, I could get that out of the way with a snap of my fingers and be on with my life. I'd get to learn at my own pace. They have payment plans and financial aid... They have teachers you can call if you have problems.... It just.... sounds... perfect for me.
My only setback is convincing my parents to let me drop out. They are going to think that I'm throwing away my life. But I honestly don't believe that. I feel like I'm helping myself. If I have to go through the next two years as a high-schooler, I'd have even less of a chance of getting a job during that time because I'd be part-time. I wouldn't be able to save half as much money because I would have minimum wage. It would take me twice as long to save up for college because my parents are unable to save for college for me because the bank charges to much for savings accounts. I'll also have more time to write, which means I'll be able to send out more books to be published. If I get some published early enough, there will be more money to put away for college.
I understand why my parents would be very iffy about letting me drop out. They just want what's good for me, and they think that's a high school education. Again, I hate to sound conceited, but I am intelligent, and very smart compared to my average classmate in my school. And that's not really saying much because our standards are low. They're afraid that I'd be wasting my intelligence by dropping out, but I'd be putting it to the test by jumping ahead of my fellow classmates. My head has been in the "college game" since I entered my freshman year. I know seniors and graduates from last year who are getting out into the real world and they're like "...woh, popularity doesn't count here. Fuck, I'm screwed!"
So, what do you guys think? I'm very interested in your all's opinions. I'd like to know what you think about me dropping out and getting my GED. I'd also like to hear any tips on how to approach this subject with my parents and how to convince them to agree. I need all the tips I can get. I'm going to get together with a couple good friends that would understand my reasoning, including my bff Kacy, and attempt to come up with strategies to approaching this subject.
Please, even if you don't think it's right for you, help me out. It's right for me, I need this. This school and it's close-mindedness is one of the roots of my mental illnesses. I need to get away and get into the real world, and this is the best way to do it. Please help me out here.
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you think about getting your GED?
maybe you should think about it a tad bit more,
All the annoying people and teachers you don't need.
So maybe you should just consentrate on your studies
as much as you can and just let them screw themselfs.
Just explain your oppinions as much as you want even
though they hate it or whatever, because if they get to
explain their mean oppinions and think everyone has to
listen why can't you. So I wouldn't worry about it.
Just keep doing what your doing.
Please. It will get better. Unfortunatly I understand how you feel as I wanted to just give up and quit. I'm a poor student but I finished highschool with good grades.
You. From what you've said, you have good grades. I know you may be ready for college but no one is ever, ever ready for college. If you do drop out: No staying at home lounging about, you'll have to get a job immediatly, studying for the GED is killer (friend tried to drop out and failed the test) and you won't be seeing your friends.
Don't drop out....it's not worth it. There are easier and far better ways to protest the schools' discrimination.
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It's impossible to only focus on studies when I can't make it through the hallway with out some derogatory comment bringing me down. It shouldn't get to me, but as I mentioned in the journal, I have a mental illness so it does. And it doesn't help when the teachers themselves are discriminating against me as well. I mean, I can't even go to school wearing a simple shirt without being pulled out of class and missing essential learning time because the staff are homophobics. Along with the mental illness factor, it's been proven that depression reduces concentration, which is why my grades have been going downhill. If I can rehabilitate myself by getting away from this crap, I can go back to being the A and B student I was before my depression swallowed me whole
I'm not trying to argue with you, even though I know it sounds like it. At least, it does to me. I'm just trying to clear up my reasoning.
But I know what you're trying to say. I get that I shouldn't let them get to me. Which is one of the only two things holding me back from going full force at my parents about dropping out. If I drop out, I feel like I'm telling the school and its close-minded assholes that they win. And in a way, they would be. But at the same time, me suffering and no change taking place isn't helping the school or me.
And it's not just the discrimination. It's also my financial situations. If I drop out now and get my GED, statistically at least, I could have a job and start saving money in approximately two or three months. I desperately need this money to go to college.
Again, I'm sorry for this coming off in an arguing tone. I really don't mean it to, but it sounds like it to me
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Transfer to a different school if that's possible.
GEDs take a LOT of work. It's doable, but you've got to be COMMITTED. Just because you're on your own schedule for completing your GED doesn't guarantee you'll be done by the time your friends graduate. And even if you get your GED, you'll STILL have to pass all of your entrance exams for college.
Stay in school. You'll be better off.
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Again, I feel like I'm coming off as though I'm arguing. And If I do, I'm really sorry. I really don't mean to.
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I used to have good grades. But depression sank in and now I still can't get out of it. I'm not trying to say that I'm going to lounge around. I want to study and then off to a job, like I said, I want to go to work and save money for college because I need it. I've got two friends studying for their GED and it's not hard for them. For the longest time I used to think that anyone that dropped out of school was an idiot. Now I've changed my view on it. I think that anyone that drops out because they think they can lounge around and the like are stupid. But I feel like I have a legitimate reason. I'm a recovering self-mutilator, and I continue to have depression and suicidal tendencies. A school that discriminates against me is never going to help me heal. I figure that I can work on recovering as I work on my GED and work for college. I know that I'll find people that hate me in the workplace and the like, but I believe that I can work on healing my mental status and by the time I get there, it will help me out.
As with the other comments, I feel as I'm coming off as though I'm trying to argue with you. I'm sorry if I come across that way to you
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However, I still can't advocate trying to drop-out. Stay in school. Work part-time. It's much easier mentally and spiritually. I've dropped out of college and it is so incredibly hard to find work. In this economy no one wants to hire kids....they want the adults who have a history of work-experiance. I'm not trying to scare you into staying in school, I'm just spouting the facts as I've learned them. Seasonal jobs for teens are non-exsistant and it's horridly frustrating since I want to move out but without a job I can't.
Stay in school. You'll be better for the long-term and most colleges have financial aid programs to help you pay for tutition.
May I ask one small question? What do you want to study at college?
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The choice is yours, but I stand on the side of "stay in school it's actually easier in the long run". And plus: once you're graduated, you'll probably never see those people ever again.
My dad told me this once when I came home one day. I was SO FRUSTRATED that I was at the bottom of the social barrel and I was tired of dealing with people. He told me that "the people in high school, who think they're hot-shots.... this is it for them. They are so close-minded that they will never ascend higher than they are now. Meanwhile, because you're not on top now, you'll be more prepared for college because you won't be tied to the petty social ladder. You can make your own ladder."
So that's my advice to you.
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